The relationships we build in treatment and later in recovery can become some of the most cherished ones we have ever had. Often we are brought closer to our truest selves and can experience safety and acceptance while being vulnerable as we identify closely with those we connect to. As we navigate life’s challenges with […]
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Balancing Boundaries
When we get sober, we look behind us and find there is much damage left in our wake. The people closest to us felt the negative affects of our behavior, and many of them set boundaries with us. From cutting off contact to ending financial support, people in our lives did what they could to […]
Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say
Having a loved one with substance use disorder can be challenging in many different ways. Fear for the health and safety of a loved one can be an ever-present feeling. How much or how little and what kind of involvement to have in their lives is a struggle to know and practice, and never really […]
The Friendships Afterward
The experience of treatment is different for everyone. Some stays are more extended, and others are shorter but more intensive. Either way, we experience a shift in our thinking and leave with an entirely new design for our lives. As we progress, we must leave habits, hobbies, and people behind in favor of this design. […]
Setting Healthy Boundaries Paves the Way for Long-Lasting Recovery
Substance use can derail a person’s life, goals, and relationships. Families are the first group primarily impacted as a person deals with a substance use disorder. Recovery is about taking back a person’s life from substance use. Still, they are not always able to manage it well without the support of loved ones behind them. […]
Why Gratitude for the Old Life Helps Build New Memories in Recovery
The only way to move past what was, is to focus on the present. Even though people hurt others, make poor choices, and find themselves at a crossroads in their lives, it is a huge accomplishment to have a goal of living sober and making it a reality. It is vital to recognize steps along […]